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Fertility Blog by Illume Fertility

Everything you need to know about reproductive health, fertility testing, fertility treatment (like IUI and IVF) and how to navigate fertility challenges.

LGBTQ+ Family Building | News | Advocacy

By: Sierra Dehmler
June 8th, 2026

At a Glance → Illume Fertility has been named a 2026 LGBTQ+ Healthcare Equality Leader by the Human Rights Campaign Foundation, the eighth consecutive year earning the designation. → Only 255 of 741 participating healthcare facilities are publicly listed as Leaders in this year's directory, a notable drop from prior years given current legal and political pressures. → The recognition arrives during a year of significant pressure on LGBTQ+ healthcare access, making publicly identifiable inclusive providers harder to find and more important to patients. → For LGBTQ+ intended parents, inclusive care goes beyond welcoming language: it means a clinical team that understands donor conception, reciprocal IVF, gestational surrogacy, and the legal and financial landscape that comes with each path. The Human Rights Campaign Foundation (HRC) released its 2026 Healthcare Equality Index on June 5, 2026, and Illume Fertility has been named a Leader for the eighth year in a row. This year's report arrives in a healthcare landscape where LGBTQ+ care access is being actively debated and, in many states, restricted, which shaped both how facilities participated and how their results are being shared publicly.

LGBTQ+ Family Building | Donor Conception | IVF | Patient Stories

By: Sierra Dehmler
April 25th, 2026

A year and a half. One failed cycle. And a care team that refused to let them feel alone through any of it. This is how Azavier and Lauren navigated IVF to become a family of three.

LGBTQ+ Family Building | IVF | Sperm Donor | Patient Stories | Choosing a Clinic

By: Sierra Dehmler
April 24th, 2026

When Challie and Lina were ready to grow their family again, they already knew how fertility treatment worked. What they were searching for this time was a clinic that felt different. Hear why they chose Illume Fertility and what LGBTQ+ family building can look like when you find the right fit.

LGBTQ+ Family Building | Surrogacy | Egg Donor | Patient Stories

By: Sierra Dehmler
April 22nd, 2026

When Darren and Marty set out to become dads, they were hoping for a miracle. What they got was a surrogacy journey full of generosity and love: a sister who offered to donate her eggs, a friend who stepped up to be their surrogate, and an ending no one expected.

LGBTQ+ Family Building | Donor Conception | Affording Care | Reciprocal IVF

By: Tnori Shelton
April 16th, 2026

The financial aspect of LGBTQ+ family building is often the most overwhelming part of the entire process. In this guide, you'll learn how much it really costs for same-sex female couples to have a baby, how to navigate insurance coverage (if you have it), and ways to afford care.

LGBTQ+ Family Building | Surrogacy | IVF | Egg Donor | Patient Stories | Pregnancy & Infant Loss

By: Sierra Dehmler
September 29th, 2025

From a long-distance relationship to building their family across continents, Alo and Javi’s journey shows the power of resilience and connection. Their story highlights both the challenges of international surrogacy and the joy of finally welcoming your first baby.

LGBTQ+ Family Building | Donor Conception | IVF | IUI | Patient Stories

By: Sierra Dehmler
July 9th, 2025

As Jess and Beth began their fertility journey, they knew it might take time, but they never expected just how long and winding their road to parenthood would be. What follows is a powerful story of resilience, love, and the unlikely path that led them to their baby boy.

LGBTQ+ Family Building | Surrogacy | Affording Care

By: Sierra Dehmler
February 14th, 2025

Last updated: August 8, 2025 Navigating the world of surrogacy can be daunting, particularly when it comes to finances. In this guide, we explore the average cost of surrogacy in the United States in 2025, with a special focus on possible additional financial considerations for same-sex male couples.